"There is something infantile in the presumption that somebody else has a responsibility to give your life meaning and point… The truly adult view, by contrast, is that our life is as meaningful, as full and as wonderful as we choose to make it." Richard Dawkins (The God Delusion) Although this quote was written directly against using God or Gods to guide your life, I believe that this quote has so many applications to ones happiness. I have written specifically about my view to not live life with regret. Taking responsibility for your own life and the way you live it goes hand in hand.
When I am on my deathbed, I want to clearly understand that I lived my life with as much happiness and fulfillment as humanly possible. I do not ever want to be in a position to say, that so and so treated me badly and held me back. I have heard time and time again that God has judged my friends and that they feel that they let him down. But what does that really mean? Are they just to afraid to admit that they let themselves down, or that they did something that made them feel great and are afraid to admit it?
Some of the things I have written on my blog so far, I do not think I would be very pleased if my grandparents read it. There is a generational gap and a respect that I have for them, also there are just some things that I would not feel comfortable discussing. I do have to catch my self either over censoring myself or under censoring myself knowing that I do have family members that read this occasionally. In the long run it does work to keep me honest about everything written. I will look back with pride that these are truly my thoughts on specific subjects and I can back the information up with knowledge and research.
My dear readers with any religious affiliations, all I can say is please live your lives to please yourself. Whether God exists or not, you live with you. Make yourself happy, and know that when you die it will not be God giving your eulogy, it will be your peers and family members. In a perfect world, we would not need religion to govern the masses and their behaviors. There would be a free flowing system of ideas and thoughts, and criticism would lead to debates and more research not violence. I welcome feedback and criticism when it comes to my views on sex and relationships. Sometimes even male perspective is appreciated :)